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How I Got My Kid To Finally Sleep Through The Night (and How You Can Too!)

Are you struggling to get your child to sleep through the night? Are you up all hours of the night trying to get your child to sleep? We know the feeling! But we’ve got some tips that will help get your child to finally sleep through the night. Keep reading to learn more.

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Sleep training methods that actually work

1. The “Cry It Out” Method

This method, also known as “extinction” or “graduated extinction”, is probably the most well-known sleep training method. And for good reason – it has been shown to be effective in a number of studies.

With this method, you put your baby down for bed awake and let them cry until they fall asleep. The key is to not intervene – no matter how hard it is to hear your baby crying.

If you cave and go in to soothe them, you’ll just be teaching them that they can cry and you’ll come running. This will make it harder in the long run.

2. The “No-Cry” Method

If the thought of letting your baby cry it out is just too much for you, then the no-cry method may be a better fit. With this method, you still put your baby down awake, but you go in periodically to reassure them.

The goal is not to pick them up or rock them to sleep, but just to let them know you’re there. Over time, you’ll extend the intervals between visits until they’re falling asleep on their own.

3. The “Fading” Method

The fading method is similar to the no-cry method, but instead of going in to reassure your baby, you’re actually going to be helping them fall asleep.

You can do this by patting or rubbing their back, or even singing a lullaby. The key is to do this until they’re drowsy, but still awake. Then, you put them down and let them fall asleep on their own.

4. The “Pick Up/Put Down” Method

This method is also similar to the no-cry and fading methods, but instead of leaving your baby once they’re drowsy, you actually pick them up and hold them until they fall asleep.

You can then put them down and see if they stay asleep. If they cry, you pick them up again and repeat the process. Over time, you’ll extend the intervals between picking them up until they’re falling asleep on their own.

5. The “Check and Console” Method

This method is similar to the pick up/put down method, but instead of picking your baby up when they cry, you just go in and check on them.

You can offer a few words of reassurance, but the goal is not to pick them up or rock them to sleep. You want them to learn that they can fall asleep on their own.

Why cry it out isn’t the only answer

There are a lot of different opinions out there about the best way to get your child to sleep through the night. Some people swear by the “cry it out” method, while others say that it’s not necessary to let your child cry for extended periods of time in order to get them to sleep.

So, which is the right approach? Well, every child is different, and what works for one may not work for another. However, there are a few things to keep in mind when deciding whether or not to let your child cry it out.

First of all, it’s important to understand that crying is a normal and healthy way for babies and children to express themselves. It’s how they communicate their needs and feelings, and it’s perfectly normal for them to do so.

That said, there are times when extended periods of crying can be indicative of a more serious problem, such as hunger, pain, or fear. If your child is crying for an extended period of time and you can’t figure out why, it’s important to consult with a doctor or other medical professional to rule out any potential health concerns.

Secondly, it’s important to consider your own parenting style and comfort level when it comes to letting your child cry. If you’re someone who prefers to avoid conflict and is quick to give in to your child’s demands, then the cry it out method may not be right for you. On the other hand, if you’re comfortable with a little bit of crying and are firm in your parenting, then this approach may work well for you.

Finally, it’s important to remember that the cry it out method is not the only way to get your child to sleep through the night. There are other approaches that you can try, such as gradually lengthening the time between your child’s bedtime and when they actually fall asleep.

Tips for better sleep habits (or “sleep hygiene”)

1. Get into a routine

One of the best things you can do for your sleep is to develop and stick to a regular sleep schedule. Try to go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, even on weekends. This will help train your body to fall asleep and stay asleep more easily.

2. Create a soothing bedtime ritual

Developing a relaxing bedtime routine can help signal to your body that it’s time to wind down and get some rest. This might include taking a warm bath, reading a book, or listening to calming music.

3. Avoid caffeine and alcohol before bed

Caffeine and alcohol are stimulants that can make it harder to fall asleep and stay asleep. Avoid caffeine (including coffee, tea, and soda) for at least six hours before bedtime, and limit alcohol to one or two drinks in the evening.

4. Get some exercise

Regular exercise can help improve your sleep by relieving stress and anxiety and promoting a healthy circadian rhythm. However, avoid exercising too close to bedtime, as this can actually make it harder to fall asleep.

5. Make sure your bedroom is dark, quiet, and cool

Creating a comfortable sleeping environment can also help you get a better night’s rest. Make sure your bedroom is dark, quiet, and cool (around 65 degrees Fahrenheit is ideal), and limit your exposure to screens in the evening.

Dealing with bedtime battles

First, try to establish a regular bedtime routine and stick to it as much as possible. This will help your child know what to expect and make it easier for them to transition into sleep mode. Make sure to allow enough time for winding down before actual bedtime so that your child isn’t too tired and cranky. You can also try using a visual schedule to show your child what activities need to happen before sleep.

If your child is still resisting, try some calming techniques such as reading a short story together or singing a lullaby. You can also offer a small reward for cooperating with bedtime. Once your child is in bed, stay nearby for a few minutes to offer reassurance if needed. Eventually, with some patience and consistency, you should be able to get your child to settle down and sleep through the night.

Nap time tricks that work

1. Make a routine: A set nap time each day will help your child know when it’s time to sleep. Try to stick to the same schedule as much as possible.

2. Create a calm environment: A dark and quiet room will signal to your child that it’s time to sleep.

3. Encourage relaxation: Try reading a calm story or singing a lullaby to help your child relax before naps.

4. Limit screen time: Avoid letting your child use screens for at least an hour before their scheduled nap time. The bright screens can be stimulating and make it harder to fall asleep.

5. Get active: Encourage your child to get some physical activity during the day. Running around outside or playing an active game will help them use up some energy so they’re more ready to take a nap.

6. Use white noise: If your child is sensitive to noise, try using a white noise machine or app to help them fall asleep.

7. Be patient: It may take some time for your child to adjust to a regular nap schedule. Stick with it and eventually they will get used to it!

What to do when your baby or toddler won’t settle down at night

First, try to create a bedtime routine and stick to it as much as possible. This will help signal to your child that it is time to wind down for the evening. Try installing a white noise machine in the nursery or bedroom to help soothe your little one. You can also try giving your child a relaxing bath before bedtime. If all else fails, you can always try rocking or nursing your baby to sleep.

How to create a bedtime routine that works for your family

First, it is important to have a consistent bedtime each night. This will help your child know when it is time to start getting ready for bed.

Second, it is helpful to have a few key activities that you do each night as part of your bedtime routine. These activities might include taking a bath, brushing teeth, reading a story, or saying prayers.

Third, it is important to make sure that your child’s bedroom is dark and quiet at bedtime. This will help your child relax and fall asleep more easily.

Fourth, it is helpful to have a short period of time before bedtime that is devoted to winding down and relaxing. This might include reading a quiet story together or listening to calming music.

Using white noise and other sleep aids

White noise is a sound that is produced by combining all of the frequencies of visible light. This type of noise can help to block out other sounds that may be keeping your child awake, making it easier for them to fall asleep. There are a variety of white noise machines on the market that can produce this type of sound, or you can simply download a white noise app on your phone.

If white noise doesn’t seem to be doing the trick, there are other sleep aids that you can try. Some parents find that placing a warm compress on their child’s forehead can help to relaxation and promote sleep. You can also try giving your child a gentle massage before bedtime.

Dealing with nighttime fears and nightmares

First, try to figure out what is causing the fear or nightmare. If it is something that can be easily fixed, like a scary picture in the room, then take care of it right away. If the fear is something more complicated, like a fear of the dark, you can try to help your child understand what is causing the fear and how to deal with it.

One way to help your child deal with a fear or nightmare is to have them talk about it. This can help them to understand what is causing the fear or nightmare and to come up with a plan to deal with it. You can also help your child to relax before bedtime by reading them a story or doing some relaxation exercises with them. If your child is having trouble sleeping, you may want to talk to their doctor about other options to help them sleep better.

Why good sleep is important for kids (and parents!)

For one, sleep helps them to grow and develop properly. It also boosts their immune system, helps them to focus and concentrate during the day, and reduces stress levels.

Getting enough sleep is also important for parents! When mom and dad are well-rested, they’re able to better handle the stresses of parenting. They’re also more likely to have the patience and energy needed to keep up with their kids’ active lifestyles.

The National Sleep Foundation recommends that children aged 3-5 get 11-13 hours of sleep each night, while kids aged 6-13 should get 9-11 hours. teenagers 14-17 years old need 8-10 hours, and adults (including parents!) need 7-9 hours.


If you’re at your wit’s end trying to get your little one to sleep through the night, hopefully some of these tips will help. We know it was a game changer for us and we finally got the restful sleep that everyone deserves. Of course, every child is different so don’t be discouraged if something doesn’t work right away – keep trying until you find what works for your family. What has been your biggest challenge when it comes to getting your kids to sleep through the night?